Nupa hril lo, thalai thisen lum lai, tha inza zok zokhai ta ding chun mingo hai style “Living Together” a um ve chu nuom a um ve hle ring a um. Tlangval ta ding lem chun tlaisuong a awl nghal a, puonsawp a awl bok a (hieng hai pahni hi nunghak/ nuhmei hai mawphurna bik a nih ka ti leia ka hung ziek ani chuong kher nawh), hang kuo lum tawt tawt ding a hang um nawk nghal, Red Cow hlak tlasam lo ding. Karei! karei! Anhawi hmel lawm lawm! Ei hang ngaituo ringot khomin zer a far tum el a!
Ka vangduoi ka ti di'm, ka vangnei ka ti di'm, ka room 8 feet by 8 feet te hi, AC hril lo, Cooler umlo na hmun, Fan hlak van tong vanga hang inkhai, an vir dan hlak chu nunghak hai le ei hang inpel phat a, an perfume rim inhnik ei hnarin a lo intem hman liet ang cho. Nunghak hai thawveng deu a hung umna chi an naw ning a tih, a lum bok, a ap bar el a nih.
A ieng iengkhom chu nisien, kei chun ka phak tawkah khawvel rinum hang tuor hi inhoi ka ti a, insuksekna le khawvel hrietthiem pha na'n ka hmang lem a, ka khat khomin inhoi ka ti em em. Mani khat a um hi anhawi ma ma chu a nih. Ei thawveng bok, mi mit meng veng ding hlak um bek bek lo, ei nuom chen chen ei meng a, ei nuom chen chen ei zal a, ei nuom chen chen sin ei thaw a, ei nuom chen chen khawlai ei leng a, tho inhmat a ngai leh, alarm clock (mobile phone le inkop) ei set a, fak le dawn hlak ei inruol, indemtuona le mit sir a inmelna hlak um lo. A kar chang harsat chang khom um sienkhom, huihah! heihah! ri a tlawm bawk. Khawvel hi ka roksai, tia faifuk hleu hleu puma hla sak heu heu chang a tam nuom hle!
Ei hnam khom a hung changkang pei a, khawpui a hai tam tawk tak ei um fur tawl tah a. TV, Movie le ei khawvel tong thar mek haia inthoka ei lak sawng pei le ei hringnun hung inthlak danglam peiin LIVING TOGETHER a um dam ei um nuol taa. Kongkhatah ei changkang deu deu tah, ti inkhinaa lo hmang nuom hai ta ding chun lo hmang thei ning a tih. Hienglai zing hin, a mimal khomin ei mimal thiemna le nina, ei zalenna hai chu ei hung hriet deu deu a, lawm a um khop el. Ka mimal le ei khawvel inhlum letdan tukver a inthoka kalo thlirdan chun LIVING TOGETHER chu a pawi ka ti bek bek chuong nawh. An hringnun kalchawi dan chu a living-together hai mawphurnaa innghat ani tlat si a. An hringnun va rel khum pek tumna hi an fuk rak nawna a umin ka hriet lem.
Chuonglaizing chun, zawna mania indon dinga ka dit chu – ei society (a pum huopin) hi LIVING TOGETHER pom thei dingin a um ta'm? ti hi a nih. Delhi le khawpui dang a hai chun lo OK nisienkhawm, veng nei ei ni seng leiin, veng tienga mihai chen khom ngaituo a hung ngaiin ka hriet tak meu. Ei khuo le veng tienga mi hai ta ding chun (a bikin ei nu le pa hai) thil rapthlak tak tling a tih. Veng tienga ei thalai hai chu an fel bik ei tina ani nawk der nawh. 'Morality' inkhina hmol um sien, khawpui a mi hai nek hman hmanin an tla hnuoi ring khom a um hiel. Inthak khom an inthak ol a, kum tlinglo a innei khom an tam a, XPerience khom an nei tam lem rawi mawh! Pu Dr. FT Hminga thuvar “Thingtum anga” um chut chu ani kher di'm chu leh! Proof ei nei sinaw leiin ei hriet ta nawh.
A ieng iengkhom ni nawk sien, 'morality' tha le thanaw inkhina chu 'society' thil lo thlirdan hi ani deu tak hlak. “Living Together” khom ei umna society le khawvel inmil a, ei cheng ngai mei a tih.
*Dated: New Delhi, Fri, 20 May, 2005
Ka hriet suol an naw chun ziektu pa hin ngaidan a change met tah a hawi. Living together chu a pawina a um nawh a.....having sex together ruok chu innei hma a ding chun pawmzam el thei a ni dim a nih?
ReplyDelete'Living together' manna kut hrattak hin dam te te in, a mi man nghet deu deu pei chu ani hih, ei dit tam naw tam. thalai ei fimkhur nawk zuol a ngai hmel de!! thalai nun a se chun iengkhawm beisei ding um naw nih. Ei hung suokna ei 'In' hai a le 'khawtlang' tieng pangah thang ei lak nasa naw chun lungsiet ei la um pei ding chu ani hi tie. Pathienin mi thangpui mawl raw sen!! Khawvel hih ieng angin inlet sienkhawm 'baal hma a la kun ngailo'...tamtak ka la nei ti ding eini lai la nei tho a tih, ti chu ka ring hle.
ReplyDelete@Ralsun: Pomzam am pomzam naw am, Delhi-a nunghak le tlangval virgin hi vang te ning an tih. Living Together nek hmanin Sex Together hi a nasa lem ti inla indik fut a tih.
ReplyDeleteLiving Together nekin nupa nisi loa Sleeping Together hi avoid tum lem ding a nih. Ei taksa hi Pathien temple a na, Pathien temple sukpawrche hai inhawi ti an um ngai nawh. Sex hi a temptinga, insum khawm a harsa, amiruokchu a consequences hi a râpthlak a nih! Ei insîr pha chu a lo inhnu zo ta hlak! Abstinence! Abstinence!
ReplyDelete@Lal, a va rapthlak ngei de! 'Delhi-a nunghak le tlangval virgin hi vang te ning an tih'. Hi thu hi andika tlang hriet a ni chun, kohranin hma a laka, inchuktirna thatak a pek naw chun a telpuia muolphona Delhi Hmar hai chungah la tlung a tih.
ReplyDeletedelhi hmar hai umna Munirka lem chu 'Sodom le Gomora' an ti hlak ka hriet a lungril ana nuom khawpel. Chu neka nasa lem a an comment dan chun "Munirka a hin thil iengkim a um a, Pathein char a um nawh" ti dam. ngaituo a suk sawt nuom khawpel.
ReplyDeleteHi thil hi thil indik a lo ni pal chun, delhi hmar welfare association le delhi hmar fellowship in an mawphurna an zo naw ti na ani thei dim?
@Joy, Uttar Pradesh a mi hai an ngaituo lem an nawm! Munirka ah chun poisa tam ve nghal lo chu aw. Pastor hai khawm tulai chu money money a um naw chun an phur sawt pei tak tak nawh.
ReplyDeleteHi thil hin ka na a deng ngeia...Ngaituo chi tak anih......ei hungna khuo hai hang en chun,thalai thisen hrat lai tak hai ta ding chun Delhi hi vanram angel a hmang thei ding a nih. Chun kalo en dan chun hienga inhnel pawl hai hi nu le pa hmu phak lova um hai an ni deu tak in an lang....Sungkuoa um hai chu a zie a um met a ang...khawvel changkang lem hai khawsak dan hi entawn a that laizing in sex pool a inhliu dan tak hi chu ei society sunga ding chun entawn lo chi a nih.@Joy... Kohran (Fellowship) le Hmar Welfare, HSA hai hin mawphurna lientak an nei in ka hriet...dan khotak le khir tak hnuoia in enkawl inla chu hieng bek2 hin chu ei um ka ring naw...Delhi hai chu khawpui ani lei'n in enkawl antak ta a anti hi chu kala awizan thei nawh....ramdanga missionary tia ei invoi lai hin ei ni sunga cancer chidang dang hurna cancer dam alo pieng zing chu ani ta awm e....
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ReplyDeletehe! Ka ring nekin alo hit de. Lol.
ReplyDeleteDelhi chauh in hung ti deu a, ka na a khel ngei. Hieng lai tak hi ngaituo sunzom ro:
"Veng tienga ei thalai hai chu an fel bik ei tina ani nawk der nawh. 'Morality' inkhina hmol um sien, khawpui a mi hai nek hman hmanin an tla hnuoi ring khom a um hiel. Inthak khom an inthak ol a, kum tlinglo a innei khom an tam a, XPerience khom an nei tam lem rawi mawh! Pu Dr. FT Hminga thuvar “Thingtum anga” um chut chu ani kher di'm chu leh! Proof ei nei sinaw leiin ei hriet ta nawh."
Delhi-a an um hnunga virgin LO an ni chauh in ring tawl a ni? Delhi-a a an hung hnunga an VIRGIN-NA (Nunghak/Tlangval) an chan chauh in ring chun mi kimlo ni ngei in tih.
Chun, Delhi nek chun veng tieng chun ei zalen naw seng ei hriet. Ei zalen nawna hin a thup mei mei chauh a ni lem. Hieng Delhi le khawpui a hai hin zalen takin ei um thei leiin khawvel nun ei hmang dan khom a zalen nuom vieu. Hieng hmuna um hai an zalen leiin dem el ding chie khom an ni ka ring nawh. Chuong taluo a, "open society" ni khom chu nuom a um chuong bok nawh.
ReplyDeleteA threnin "Munirka a chu umnaw a um naw, Pathien char a um nawh" an ti hi thu khel let der a nih. Fiemthu a nih. Munirka neka Pathien umnaw na a tam el. Safdarjung, South Ext, Kotla, Lajpat, North. Etc. Wow! Wow! ;-)
@Lal, Mihriem ei zalen lei el a, a suol zawnga ei khawsa pei ani chun, thil inkhawtak ning a tih. Zalenna hih Mihriem suk famkimtu ding lem annawm, mi suksetu ni lem lovin. Ei nungchang thanaw hi 'ei zalen lei' anih, ti a eiin tum pei anni chun hnam puitling lo le depde lo, mi hnam hai lai a mani mawng hlim eini zing awm deh! Hnam dangin an thaw ve a an khawsa ve tho annawm ti a hnam dang hai khawsak dan zawm el a, la khawsa theiin ei um naw ie. Thil tha chu la lut ei tiu thil thanaw ruok chu hnawl lem in hma tieng pan ei tiu.
ReplyDeleteEi nuom dan chitin um seng ei ta, innei hma a sex hmang hi thil thar taluo ani nawh, vengtieng tien a tlanga in thawka lo um tah anih. A thranaw ti chu ei hriet seng. Ei sie le thra a in nghat anih. Vengtieng anthawka Delhi hung invawi rak khom a ngai chuong nawh. Mani seng invawi a hun tah. Suol chu Pathienin hrem loin insuo naw nih, ti hi hre seng el ding anih. Pathien hi hmangaina a sip anih, sienkhom suol chu a hrem ngei2 hlak. Mani in enfie seng lem ei tiu.
ReplyDeleteIem a na suol chu?
DeleteGenius, i thil hril hi k pawm zawng tak ani,. mani mita tlungpum hmulova midang mita hmawlhek va buoipui ding2 annw,. a khawlai hmuna khwm pre-marital sex hi a tam vwng anta,. El Hmar
ReplyDeleteI would suggest to read this book "FAMILY: HOME OR CALL CENTRE? by: Reknown Rev. Paul Thangiah....
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1. Marriage Instituted by God (Gen. 2:18-25)
2.The Foundation of a Strong Marriage (Ecclesiastes 4:1-12)
3. The Husband-Wife Relationship-"Wives Submit" (Ephesians 5:22-24)
4 The Husband-Wife Relationship- "Husband Love" (Ephesians 5:25-33)
5. How to Develop a Tight Knit Family (John 10:22)
6. Who is A Virtuous Woman (Proverb 31:10)
7. The Godly "Wife" (Genesis 12:2-5. Psalm 68:6)
8. Raising Godly Children (Genesis 12:3; Galatians 3:9&14; Mathew 19:13)
9. Money As A Family Affair (Proverbs 3:5-18; I Timothy 6:3-10; Mathew 6:19-33
10. Scud Missile That Attacks a Home-Anger (Proverbs 30:33)
11. Foxes-Watch Out(Song of Solomon 2:15)
12. Resentment In Marriage-Deal With It (Proverbs 18:19)
13. Resolving Marriage Problems-Conflicts In Home (Mathew 5:23-25; Ephesians 4:26-32)
14. Bringing The Sparkle Back Into The Marriage (Proverbs 15 V 13-22)
MARRIAGE COVENANT
Delhi a chi ei um nawh a, Titak rala chu Delhi chu Welfare, HSA le DHCF hai an la hrat deu a, anleh hmun danga um hai hi teh, Mitmei veng ding um nawna hmuna um hai hi. Ccpur khawm nule pa mitmei veng ding ei la nei a, sienkhawm a chuong a liem chu eini bik naw ngei. Ccpur a ngei khawm ei chikim ve, a lang a chang a living together in ei um naw a ti thu cho ani lem naw maw??? eg. Ccpur ah Call girl chen ei um ve tah ti hi pawm harsa ei ti vieu ding am?
ReplyDeleteSad but true. Sex outside live-in is very much common in rural areas. Teeans as young as 13 are often seen going to the village outskirts and making it out. Live-in is not an issue for me. Sex before marriage or casual sex need to be taken up first.
ReplyDeleteLive-In is better option!
ReplyDeletehotu in dik no lei
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